Being pregnant doesn't always result to marriage. But one can't say that it is an unplanned pregnancy because if you are sexually active and doesn't take contraceptives regularly, there will really be big chance to be pregnant. In this modern time that women are empowered and traditional values had shifted, it is up to the couple to decide should they decide to marry or not. And it is not just because they are expecting, that would only one of the reasons. It would be wrong to wed just because of the baby. They should wed because they really love each other and they are committed to start a family together.
I am just baffled that since the couple is in the relationship, meaning, they do love each other, that would still not be enough to convince them to get married since they are also set to have a child. If they are really not sure about each other, then birth control pills are readily available for them. This is something that we can control, and yet, it still happens. Perhaps to give way to a new life in the world.
As someone who is not part of this kind of dilemma, I am just here to support and love. Having a new born in such a blessing , it is something to celebrate. Though the parent's lives would be changed forever because it is a life long responsibility, whether they chose to marry or not.
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